“You want to know why you should never put someone high up on a pedestal? Because then, they’ll have no choice but to look down on you.” Memorize this.
When I wanted my life to change, I changed how I spoke. Who I spoke to. What I listened to. How I spent my time. Who I spent my time with.
Before that though, I had to declutter my mind and with that came a decluttering of my company and my pastimes.
I had to change my mind.
Be grateful that certain things didn’t work out. Sometimes you don’t even know what you’re being protected from or where you’re being guided to when you’re in the midst of it all. That’s why you just have to trust that greater things are aligning for you. Let go gracefully.
‘I don’t know that person well enough to have an opinion on them’ is a very valid answer in many cases, and integral to the art of minding one’s business
I owe myself a lil apology for being in spaces where I KNEW I wasn't respected, wanted, appreciated, loved, nor valued but instead I stayed for the sake of our history. I owe myself an apology for putting people who NEVER appreciated me before myself.
Living in private, dating in private, making money in private, healing in private, unlearning in private, and growing in private is top tier self-care. Normalize being private and letting them assume and be wrong about you while you work on yourself and evolve into the new you.
My beige flag is that I look at a restaurants menu 10 business days in advance of going to eat there. No I don’t need time to decide what I want to eat I’ve known for a week and a half thank u