If you want another man to assist you,
• With a job,
• Opportunities,
• Financial assistance,
Never use your emotional issues and predicaments as bargaining points.
Nobody is interested in your problems,
"I am suffering, please help."
"My wife is sick, I need the job."
"I have been kicked out of the rental house. Please help"
"Banks are auctioning me."
"I have a degree, yet I am jobless, I am depressed."
Once you sell your emotional package, you automatically become a turn-off.
A man will help you in view of your value to him, not because you are suffering.
He may be philanthropic in supporting you in the short term. Still, he will expect you to discard your victimhood mentality and seek a sustainable solution to move beyond your rock bottom.
However, do not pour your problems onto him.
The best he can do is to tell you,
"May God see you through."
Please note that everyone is going through some sort of problems, including the man you are seeking help from, not just you.
Many men you see as successful are seen that way because they have successfully hidden their chaos and emotions from the rest of the world.
The man you see driving an expensive car and wearing expensive suits is also going through something that, if he shared, you would empathize with his situation.
A lot of men have chosen to outgrow their problems by ignoring circumstances beyond their control while focusing on maximizing their skills and value to the world.
So, when you are seeking support from another man, sell your skill, value and experience, and how you can solve a problem for him.
Keep your suffering and problems to yourself; nobody is interested in them.
You are a MAN, you have yourself, and that is enough.
Your breakthrough will come.
Chin up, towards God!
Nationwide shouting #RutoMustGo on the 31st December at midnight after fireworks 🎆 itadonjo aje?
Whether you’re at the beach, church, club, local kwa barabara, bed sitter, balcony, estate, mkuru, nyuma ya ID.
Wherever you are all over the country! #RutoMustGo
#EndAbductionsKE
The disagreement between William Ruto and Rigathi Gachagua has nothing to do with you as a Kenyan getting development and services. It is about one Pwagu stealing more than the other Pwagu. The MPs are active in that disagreement because they are the pipes by which money flows out. They are the ones who register the companies and lobby the contractors then withdraw the cash and take the big share to the two. THEREFORE if you are a Kenyan citizen participating in that fight by supporting one side or the other you should OCCUPY YOUR MIND and know that you are the food they are fighting for.
Raila Odinga has shown a willingness to join Zakayo’s regime and because of that, from today the regime will be more ruthless on media, citizens and anyone who dares to speak the truth. Because of Raila’s support, Zakayo’s will muzzle the press, defy katiba, brutalize and kill us
Look at the trauma they have taken Macharia Gaitho through. Abducted in a police station, and if it wasn’t for him, and his son’s quick thinking, his body would be floating in a quarry. Zakayo started killing kids next will be the professionals. No one is safe. #RutoMustGo
“Kenyatta was not MAU MAU. It was only the younger generation which had decided that because all other means failed, we must use violence.” - Bildad Kaggia