Here’s what I wish I’d known sooner:
Feeling enough doesn’t come from winning more.
It comes from honesty.
Listening.
And remembering who you were before you started proving anything.
@JulieChangRE I can tell you that those who are self-employed who tend to attack the process will spread misinformation more often if it was difficult for them to get a mortgage. N of 1. Obviously your N is much more than 1 😉