The real flex is knowing yourself so well that somebody misunderstanding you doesn't send you into an identity crisis.
Like... okay? You're allowed to be wrong
about me.
“Get married with the purpose of getting closer to Allah and In sha Allah it will be a blessed marriage. Marry someone who will encourage you, elevate your Imaan, be a great model for your children and most importantly, bring you closer to Allah.”
Quoting this again to say,
this is why I stay away from dating, I despise these games, I hate them soooo much with everything in me.
Clarity and honesty is so important to me, I'm fine with rejection, incompatibility etc etc, just be honest.
someone else's time is an amanah too. constantly making people wait, cancelling at the last minute, or assuming they'll always adjust for you isn't harmless just because you've become used to it. consideration is part of good character.
I'm in love with this quote
"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior"
I really don’t think any Muslim woman refers to her husband having a girlfriend as cheating.
We all know what we’re doing. We all know what cheating is.