characterizing women as some separate race of life-giving goddesses is literally just dehumanization with a bow on it. and it still centers baby-making as our purpose just like patriarchy does.
one of the twists in real world AI is that, in scifi, it was assumed that the danger would be that we'd raise the machine to the level of a human soul. but to be honest, it seems we're most in danger of debasing the human soul to the level of machine.
sex under patriarchy will always be an act of violence. men perceive it to be a form of conquest and dominance, they see penetration as a claim and humiliation. even the language they use shows it.
"if being smart means giving up on sasuke, i’ll remain a fool my entire life" naruto was 12 delivering lines with the emotional intensity of a victorian romance protagonist