"The path to whatever your notion of success is will likely not be linear. Don’t take continuous personal growth for granted. Just because you’re older doesn’t necessarily mean you’re wiser. Your 20s will be full of failures — let them happen and learn as you go.” ~ H Desalles
We need to break the cycle of young men thinking that they need to be accomplished versions of themselves just to date women who barely have a plan for their own lives.
In 2025 I did 2 degrees simultaneously, moved to a new city, got a corporate job at one of the biggest corporates in SA & landed another one at one of the biggest tech companies in Europe that pays me 2x more. I submit my thesis in 2 weeks and I’m halfway through my 3rd degree.🥺
You know why Tyler Perry's Acrimony is so popular? It showed us in the most gut wrenching way that love doesn’t always reward sacrifice. We don’t talk enough about how deeply women are conditioned to be Bob the Builder and see potential as love.