@Boywrist That's why I think the best way to deal with things is to face them, accept them, reflect on our own actions or what we could've done differently, and move on. No need t seek validation or an excuse to escape reality.
I asked my therapist:
“How do I stop feeling stuck in life?”
She said:
“Sit alone. Open your notes app.
And answer these 10 brutally honest questions.”
Here they are:1/11
Rihanna sharing a quote that said “the moment you start hiding your emotions to avoid arguments, you begin losing the bond that once made you feel like home” and the shit is real asf.
When God created us, he didn’t mean for us to start doing accounting, investment banking, adjusting EBITDA, GAAP and IFRS etc. But through our sins, these woes have befallen us.
I hate when someone I’m involved with has zero curiosity about me. Like damn, you don’t wanna know what I like? What I’m into? What makes me happy? You just wanna exist around me? 😭
I wish more men AND women would just say, “I wasn’t taught how to date properly. I’m interested in you though, and I’m willing to learn how to show you that in a way you can actually receive. Just be honest, intentional and teachable. I can work with “I don’t know how.” I cannot work with “this is just how I am” while you proceed to stress me the hell out
dating to marry will make you realize that the "plenty of fish in the sea" narrative is false. alot of people are really not worth that level of intimacy