If you want to live a life that's aligned with who you genuinely are, stop "performing". Don't laugh at their stupid jokes. Don't respond just because they want you to. Don't lower your standards to fit in. Don't sacrifice your taste just because they don't have any. Don't do anything, anything... that makes you shrink yourself. That makes you dilute the very essence of who you already are. Let them do the work. Let them rise to your standards. Why not? They're not special. You are. You know who you are. It's your reality. Your life. Don't bend.
Make yourself so busy, so disciplined, so determined that you don't have time to know what's happening in others peoples lives, make pointless comparisons, or irrational opinions.
Stay focused and devoted to yourself
I don’t care how old or young you are. You should be reading.
Reading is essential. It sparks curiosity, builds empathy, sharpens the mind, and offers us endless adventure. You can study the brilliant minds. The benefits are timeless.
Pick up a book today.
y’all be way too obsessed with finding a man…..GIRL GO STUDY, find a better job , find a skin care regimen , tweak your resume, read a book, increase your credit, get that degree, pay off your car, build your savings, travel, live a little, BUT KEEP YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT ! life is NOT all about a man . TAKE CARE OF YOU ‼️‼️
You as a single person have more power today than a 20 person company of the past. That's insane. The internet gave you the ability to learn anything. Social media gave you the leverage to reach anyone. AI is giving you the ability to create almost anything. Please don't waste it
a sign that you’re healing is that you come back to the things you used to do when you were happy. you start to read books again, make art again, do your princess routines, adorn yourself with jewellery and dress beautifully, dance more and become excited about life
create a perfect mental image of yourself in 10 years. then shut up and listen to what he needs from you. does he need you to learn sth, quit sth, do sth? whatever it is, that’s your debt to you in 10 years. the most important debt in your life.
i could never be a tradwife and genuinely proud of that personally the aspirational mother i want to be was shaped by the really hot mums with their useful rich husbands that i was saw in my private catholic primary school (call me tacky idc)