in my 20’s I’ve learnt that when people know they’ve sabotaged chances to have a healthy connection with you and don’t possess the maturity or humility to repair it, you’ll be painted as the problem to others because they can’t admit their faults. and you have to let them do that
Waiting for someone to treat you right is often a trauma response. Know your self-worth and what you deserve. See them as they are, not who you wish them to be. Heal so you stop tolerating mistreatment and start choosing distance over disrespect and peace over chaos.
i’m humble enough to know that they can easily replace me, confident enough to know that no one can give the same unconditional love and sacrifice that i can give. 🤷
There comes a day when you realize some people will only learn to appreciate you by losing you. Go where your energy is welcomed – not tolerated. If someone treats you like an option, remove them like a choice. You're worthy of being loved, valued and respected. Always.