@Baaltorac@FemCondition Your equating wanting equal rights in deciding to parent to finding rapist moron they ain't the same thing and in case you forget women to have been known to force and beguile people into unwanted sexual situations
“Some distant thought, memories lost in time
A forgotten name, etched in pain. . .
Upon my lips sit, a flicker of surprise
Burning bright as flame,
As the forgotten sentiment returns
A wild, forgotten call of something once desired
An echo remains upon my heart
Like a faded tattoo, invisible to the naked eye
A whisper of something, an echo of time”
- Bella Blue, Echos of Time
@FemCondition@DanielStra73179 Femme doll I'm leaving the conversation the person you're speaking with is a discriminator and I'm all set you know I pride my belief of complete equal with the same consequences as well as accolades I cannot continue reading this person's bs
@NoctrnlValkyrie I'm getting notifications but only partial messages contained in those I answered the last one even tho it's not showing the message you sent
Yes. I've never met a survivor of any abuse who didn't phase through anger in recovery. We turn away from anger and shame it. Embracing and creating healthy outlets is vital.
5. Move From Anger to Power
Eventually , the goal is not to stay angry forever—it’s to convert that anger into boundaries, clarity, self-respect, and agency.
When fully processed, anger becomes: the voice that says “never again”
the boundary that protects your future
the wisdom that sees red flags instantly
the energy that fuels your healing and purpose
It transforms from raw fire into inner authority. It does get better over time. I know how painful it is, like life will never be tolerable with the anger for the injustice we feel. It will likely take years, but it does get easier and then one day, you’ll realize you don’t feel that anger anymore. Your peace will come back to you. Hang in there. 🫂
4. Find the Grief Underneath
Anger is often the guard dog standing in front of grief. Once the initial fire burns, survivors often uncover:
Grief for the years they lost
Grief for the version of themselves that they had to kill off to survive
Grief for the love, parenting, or safety they deserved but never got
Grief for the life taken from them
Processing the anger helps you reach the grief—which is where the deepest healing occurs. Cont