you are NOT my friend if you know something I should be made aware of but don’t tell me. you are NOT my friend if you let anyone speak on my name to you PERIOD. you are NOT my friend if you’re running around telling my business like it’s yours to tell (1/2)
I don’t think it would be healthy of me to ever put someone in a position where they keep having to do guesswork and apologise for things they didn’t even know they did. maturity is not one person continually having to ask the other to communicate. that’s just me though
feeling like you’re walking on eggshells around someone is a sign that they do not know how to set up an environment where it feels emotionally safe. you should not have to constantly feel on edge bc their responses historically and currently are not consistent or predictable.
they make you feel good & happy & lovely but do you like them as a person? do you like how they communicate? do you like their beliefs? do you like how they treat others? do you like the things they do? do you like how they take care of themselves?do you like their boundaries?
I feel like in order to keep female friends these days you have to tolerate weird energy & be fake 🤷🏾♀️ that really ain’t my vibe. Them big friend groups look cool until you get behind the scenes & some people are more closer then others 👀they all talk about each other…😭