When I learned to get out of my own way, and keep relearning (lol), things started to get better for me. We cause most of our own problems. I've learned that I was causing all of mine. I was, and still am to some extent, reactive to the pain I suffered. I work to manage that.
3 months ago any girl drinking a white claw got their entire existence roasted by the same guys now posting snap stories saying โainโt no laws when youโre drinking clawsโ