Never use social media to validate your existence. People can like you without liking your posts, and vice versa. Love is not digital, and you must not wait for likes, to like yourself.
and i’m lol @ men “not knowing” their homeboys are predators. imagine if they used the energy they use to investigate the sexual history of every woman they have even a passing interest in into something like idk. finding out if their friend is a rapist?
When dating, do not look for perfection, but look for someone who has pledged to their inner healing work – and someone who will hold space for yours. Ensure it is mutual. This is how our relationships will evolve.