how to have fun as an adult:
> stop making everything productive - not every hobby needs to "go somewhere"
> it’s ok to try something new and be bad at it!! you’re not being graded anymore!!
> say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned
> hang out with people who make you laugh, not just people who "make sense"
> cap venting to 30% of your total hang time; your friends aren't free therapy
> plan ONE thing each week that you'd look forward to
> you can start simple - work somewhere new, walk somewhere new, eat something new
> take a random class just for fun - pottery, dance, improv, cooking
> do things that make you feel like a kid again - dance in the rain, run through the sprinklers, game night
> surround yourself with people who make you feel lighter - your time and energy is precious
> be 5% more silly in your life. sing badly in the car, dance in your room, crack a bad joke. let's grow the silly muscle
> stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new!!
> talk to strangers - at coffee shops, events, literally anywhere. serendipity maxx
> don't forget the basics: move your body, get sunlight, take your vitamins, eat well, sleep
> your time to live life is happening NOW so stop saving it for later!!
we forgot that life is supposed to be FUN ya'll
lets go PLAY!!!
you got this!!!
Find every single thing to be celebrated. Do this intentionally.
Life becomes heavier as time goes by. You're not gonna survive if you keep choosing to only see the dark.
A book that I would recommend to every woman on their later 20s to early 30s. This book convinces me that some female experiences are universal. I felt validated by some parts of this book.
how to have fun as an adult:
> say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned
> cap venting to 20% of total hang time; any longer and it's time to move on to more fun topics!!
> stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new!!
> stop making everything productive - not every hobby needs to "go somewhere" ok??
> be 5% more silly in your life. dance in your room, sing badly in the car, crack a bad joke. let's grow the silly muscle
> hang out with people who make you laugh, not just people who "make sense"
> take a random class just for fun - pottery, dance, improv, cooking
> stop optimizing everything. embrace doing things badly just because they're enjoyable
we forgot that life is supposed to be FUN ya'll
lets go PLAY!!!
OMG my hotel in singapore was just a building next to this mall and i saw a lot of people were crowding in front of it
little did i know there was ryujinn 😭😭😭
He owned the mafia world but she owned him. With powers hidden behind a calm smile, she let him believe he was in control and soon, the most feared man in the city was on his knees for the one thing he could never command: HER