@DrGenderScholar@stacycay I’m speaking to the fact that you’re obviously a troll account and that the R-slur is heinous and we’ve all known that for fucking decades. Seriously, get a life 🤡
@AdaOnBass @moleenjoyer It’s also this craving to subvert gender roles, but then a lot of afab people who are good at performing feminity have a hard time letting it go. (Due to safety+feeling attractive) If they’re saying they wanna be transfem, they’re likely just trans masc and haven’t accepted it.
@AdaOnBass @moleenjoyer I kind of get it based on my own experience. When I thought I was cis, I was very femme. My feminity felt like a fun performance/persona at times. A lot of trans mascs crave being feminine without feeling like it was something you were forced to do based on your body.
Key phrase is “if everyone’s open to it,” and it’s valid to not wanna date people who aren’t.
But if you’re comparing the dynamic with someone you just started getting to know to their dynamic with someone they’ve been committed to for YEARS, you’re digging your own grave.
Idk why people get so mad over the term “primary partner” in poly.
Realistically, someone is not gonna be as attached to you as their long-term partner who lives with them if you’ve been on 2 dates.
The dynamics can grow and change over time if everyone’s open to it, but bffr
@ChelemenDaria @cisgenderhaver If you don’t get it, it’s not for you. That’s okay. Some dating styles work for people and some don’t. You not getting it doesn’t invalidate it.
@chaopilledgirl @Shadovvlurking@cisgenderhaver Commitment doesn’t mean exclusivity. It means commitment.
Poly people will have partners they live with for years, partners they marry, even partners they have kids with.
You’re gonna say that’s not commitment just because of a mutual agreement to see other people too?
Idk who needs to hear this, but if you’re a tobacco-free stoner, and you smoke a lot with other stoners who do smoke tobacco, you will likely, at some point, accidentally hit a tobacco-packed bonged.
You will also have to keep an eye on your own pieces-they will legit forget.
@horman_crystal@_FunkyCrew@ask_aubry Not all autistic people are developmentally delayed, but even if he is, it doesn’t excuse preying on a college student 13 years younger than him.
@MoroaicaVamp @Sage2Lilith@ask_aubry He is a Predator though. 19 year old college student meeting a 33 year old man, and getting married directly out of college?? Idgaf what anyone says-I’ve experienced an age gap like that, and the older person is always doing it with predatory intent.
@AngryMama11@FalSkyWolf@a_h_reaume You say that’s the conversation you’re participating in, but you just accused two random people of never helping out with chores at all when they never implied they didn’t help.
I think the dude in the story is an ass too, but why project that onto other people in the thread?
@T1ER1TACTICAL @ScrewTheZoophs @ptitloolou@ErinInTheMorn It’s not about intervention. We are actively funding it. 🙄 The protests are because we want the government to STOP funding the genocide.
@T1ER1TACTICAL @ScrewTheZoophs @ptitloolou@ErinInTheMorn I never, ever said that I sympathize with Hamas. I said killing innocent children and civilians is not okay. (That goes for any group.)
I am going to condemn genocide. And I’m not going to take the unempathetic stance of saying it’s “not America’s problem.”
@T1ER1TACTICAL @ScrewTheZoophs @ptitloolou@ErinInTheMorn If you’re pushing rhetoric whatsoever that Israel has a right to be doing what they’re doing right now- No, you are not pushing for “defense against terrorism.”
You are pushing for genocide.
And to think you’re out here calling other people brainwashed. 🙄
@T1ER1TACTICAL @ScrewTheZoophs @ptitloolou@ErinInTheMorn Wtf do you think is being killed right now????
Over 15,000 civilians are dead. It’s over 20k if you count the missing people who are presumes to be dead under rubble. ~70% of that has been women and chilren.
They’ve bombed universities and homes, and every. single. hospital.
@T1ER1TACTICAL @ScrewTheZoophs @ptitloolou@ErinInTheMorn Palestinians are not evil though.
1. there are queer Palestinians. Some who have left the country have talked about how atrocious and heartbreaking this mindset is.
2. half of Palestine’s population is CHILDREN. Now what we’re not gonna do is condemn children and call them evil
@Fummer432@finngalkn @Fllittertigibb You insisting that trans people have fetishes doesn’t make it true. “I’m sorry to tell you” 😂 You can’t just make shit up to fit your own narrative, and demand we take it as truth when it’s far from it.
@dariusthehunter @rout_wyatt42859 @angehieux Being a pro-colonization misogynistic judgemental health nut isn’t helping your cause like you think it is.
You don’t deserve to get laid ever.
I work at a sex shop, and we once had to take down a flyer for free HIV testing services. I got told it’s because any signage in our store needs to be approved to represent the “brand.” Like what. Why. Why would you do that.
Every single day, someone comes into my job with flyers wanting to promote something cool, and every single day, I have to tell them “Oh our CEO doesn’t let us put up flyers,” despite every other business in the neighborhood having flyers to support artists/events/businesses.