i hate large crowds, but i really love concerts. i hate loud noises, but i love loud music. i hate talking to people, but i'm the most talkative person when i'm comfortable. i hate change, but i love trying new things. it feels weird, but i love it.
People hear "high standards" and think money. Nope. I'm watching how you treat the waiter, the janitor, your grandparents, and people with no status. Character is the standard.