@dmichaelclary We are having a retreat for exactly this same purpose this weekend. We calls ours a โsinglesโ retreat but we have folks who are widowed and older come too. Thereby eliminating all pressure. So if you have any that you want to send our way, we are happy to fellowship with them!
Hereโs a measure of an individualโs spiritual self-awareness:
1) Do they consistently repent of specific sins which they have committed or are they always a passive victim with excuses?
2) Do they forgive as they have forgiven or do they, in bitterness, withhold forgiveness?