I don’t take things personally anymore because the love people give is a reflection of love they have for themselves. it actually has little to do with me and more with how they show up and care for themselves.
People don’t realize that you can actually push someone so far that they no longer want anything to do with you. This applies to friendships, relationships, or even family. Sometimes people assume that because you love them, whether as a friend, partner, or family member, you will continue to tolerate anything: disrespect, neglect, hurtful actions, lack of effort, or emotional stress. Everyone has limits, and there is only so much one person can take before they choose peace over connection.