friends/mutuals: if i told you that my preferred ways to be contacted are to be:
- called
- emailed
- written to
- visited at my home unannounced
would you contact me in this way?
conversely, if i took to cold calling you, emailing you, writing you, or knocking on your door bc i happen to be in the neighborhood, would you view this favorably?
The more patterns you throw in, the harder it is to juggle. Here's the most difficult of all: four patterns. But it works bc the suit is a fine herringbone, tie is widely spaced squares, and the shirt and pocket square are somewhere between in terms of scale.