A lot of men create enemies by telling the truth in the most humiliating way possible. If you want influence inside real hierarchies, learn how to disagree without making the other person feel reduced, because once ego gets involved, people stop responding to logic and start defending pride.
People rarely tell you who they are directly, they tell you in flashes when control slips for a second, so pay less attention to the polished version they present and more attention to how they react when they are ignored, corrected, delayed, embarrassed, or denied, because pressure cracks the mask faster than conversation ever will.
Most people are not moral because they are innately good, they are moral because they lack the power to deal with consequences of being immoral; As such power or money are not something that corrupts an individual, but a filter that reveals their true character.
Anger gives stupid people a temporary feeling of power and intelligent people a permanent trail of regret. The rush feels righteous because it relieves pressure, but what it usually reveals is not strength, only loss of command.
People have no clue what prison is really like. The guards abuse you. Mold growing everywhere. No window pains no rained and snowed on. Dirty rusty water. Chow hall food labeled no for human consumption. Commissary ridiculous prices. Most people will come home. Why abuse them
@LauraLoomer@RealCandaceO Ohh no. He drove drunk and got arrested. This is the old guard bush era way of thinking. People make mistakes. We grow from them. The old guard way of thinking ostracized people who were arrested and addicted. This is the new guard American first. Give people chances