y'all ever felt like certain people came into your life to teach you how to love yourself and the consequences you face when you don't love yourself? like had you loved yourself, you wouldn't have settled for them, and maybe you wouldn't have gotten that message any other way?
Lustful men will never be satisfied & that sounds miserable. Like imagine having a girl who loves you unconditionally, respects you, care for you & is ultimately perfect but still you can't be satisfied. Such men will always lose, that will forever be their biggest downfall.
Let’s be clear... choosing not to tolerate being lied to, manipulated, neglected, or treated like you don’t matter isn’t you being “dramatic” or “too emotional.” That’s called having boundaries. That’s called self-respect. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
It kinda makes me sad when i reflect back on instances where people knew exactly what they were doing and how it would hurt me and went ahead anyway. The ease of being casually so insidious will never not shock me.