Have you noticed that women who don't accept disrespect, dishonesty, or manipulation, are often labelled as difficult, toxic, crazy, bitter, or complicated?
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
my intuition is so crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on, but still know there's something happening behind my back and I'm always right.
Before you try to chew my head off, discipline does not mean hitting TO ME! But so many mothers won’t even let you verbally correct behaviors and that shit is just ridiculous. Any child over the age of three should be able to take direction and follow simple rules.
Community died when mothers started telling people they weren’t allowed to correct children’s behaviors. Nobody wants to watch your undisciplined child that starts screaming when they are told no.
Nobody talks about how draining it is BE A GOOD ASS PERSON & it’s fcked up bc you really be caring about people or how they feel bc you always been a “what if it was me” type of person… but life is teaching me that PEOPLE ARE SELFISH af. And it don’t matter how good of a person you are, how good you been to them, or even how much love you be showing.. some people will never give you that same energy 💯 & I know for fact I ain’t the only one that feel this way fr & I know being a good person always got me blessed times 10 but ngl sometimes I be wanting to do people exactly how they do me but I know I can’t 💯
It’s so much herpes, aids, stds & bacteria just floating around & y’all think it’s fun & ok to fuck on multiple people I’m scared of y’all!!