I sit quietly and realize that God has been taking care of me this whole time. Maybe not in luxurious ways. Maybe not an easy life. But through protection,provision, good health, surviving hard days and always having just enough to keep going.
Just received my CheckersSixty order, it was delivered by a Zulu guy...
When I gave him the exit code, he asked, "Manje iMama lihlala nobani"😭😭😭
Guys????😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry about your ordeal, Denise. But thank you for traveling to see your kids.
My 2 cents, since you decided to post this experience online:
- You were wrong to try move the kids without his consent
- This is one of the downsides of having a child with a parent who lives far away or moves far away
- If you try to be kind to the father, he may ease up over time
- As long as you paint yourself as a victim & him as a villain, I don't see things getting better
- Children grow up & they don't always sympathize with the parent who expects it
- If you'd successfully moved with the girls, he would've have to travel just as much as you do now
- The reason you're asked to see them outside is due to your past behaviours
- The reason the visits are supervised is because you legally kidnapped the girls last time
In closing, I think you need to take accountability for where this situation is right now. You need to exercise kindness & grace for yourself & your babydaddy. You need to put the girls' best interests first & not yourself.
I hope things will get better for both of you & you'll be able to co-parent healthily for the sake of the girls.
PS. I've learnt the hard way to stop posting about my kids coz there are evil ppl who don't wish well on ppl who share such personal stories. Maybe therapy & sharing with a closed circle may be best.
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Guys, I made 2 Uber Eats orders today, and both of them were delivered by South Africans. The last guy even apologised that he got lost because he is new to Uber Eats.
March and March is working. South Africans are being employed.
I used to buy those cheap sunglasses from the roadside all the time and always thought, "What's the point of buying expensive ones? I'm going to loose them anyway." Then one day, I gathered the courage and bought an expensive sunglasses. And guess what? I still have them. I've taken care of them ever since.
That's when I realized those cheap sunglasses weren't getting lost because they were cheap? They were getting lost because I didn't value them enough to care. It's hard to accept, but sometimes in someone else's story, you are that cheap pair of sunglasses.