my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
everyone here is a "baby mama" but yet only two of them get ridiculed, talked down upon, talked bad about and not allowed to enjoy pregnancy/motherhood.. i can't quYTe figure it out 🤔🤔🤔
This is the type of simple life I want a loving husband, properly raised kids, grilling on the weekends, bills on autopay, relaxing with my man, & a beautiful home!! That’s all I’m chasing
DELETE conversations that hurt you whenever you read them. Delete that phone number who hurts u. Block contacts. Restrict. Mute. Unfollow. Remove negative energy from your life. Do whatever it is that you need to do to heal and create a positive environment for yourself!
My cup is completely empty. I need a week of doing nothing but self care on a resort.
• Breakfast cooked by someone who isn’t me.
• Mimosas.
• 2 hour massage.
• Champagne.
• A facial.
• Reading by the pool on the rooftop.
• The best salad I’ve ever tasted.
• An hour in the jacuzzi.
• A 5 star dinner that fuels me.
• A scorching hot bubble bath.
• Complete relaxation + full nights sleep.
In that order.
there is something so endearing about someone putting in the effort to communicate with you. it’s considerate but ultimately so sweet that someone would want to contribute to getting rid of any anxiety you may have. to fill the silence & fog of confusion with nothing but clarity.