we in America don’t know how to live for Christ because we’re too busy loving ourself.
i’m sorry friend, self love is not beneficial to your walk with the Lord. obedience to Him usually looks like denying what your flesh wants, while self love promotes “do what makes you happy”
when we grow closer to Him, our desires shift from what we want—what we think we most need—to what He wants, which is what we actually do need. His desires become our desires