A wife cannot publicly shame her husband for cheating on her, & she would attract sympathy.
But if she tells the public that she's the one feeding him & paying the bills, she has successfully shamed him.
A man cannot publicly shame his wife for not providing for the familynor paying the bills, & he would attract sympathy.
But if he tells the public that she has been an unfaithful wife with evidences, he has successfully shamed her and ruined her.
Provision is a man's shield.
Fidelity is a woman's shield.
End.
Watch. I'd never heard of Prince Adewole Adebayo until today 🤦🏾♀️
I am taken by his brilliance! So there are still Nigerians like this? Wait, maybe there's hope, sigh!
Son, kindness means caring deeply and helping when it's right, but "nice" often means avoiding hard truths to please others, which earns no respect. Women, like everyone, admire strength, fairness, and clear boundaries more than constant agreement. Teach this to your sisters too: real love guides firmly, building character, not weakness— that's why overly soft societies struggle with direction.