Christianity isn't blamed when when some persons commit atrocities claiming to be Christians; So why is the insecurity crisis (in Nigeria) being pinned on Islam?
In 2026,
- Listen
- Talk less
- Have sex
- Eat clean
- Fast often
- Walk more
- Drink water
- Lift weights
- Sleep earlier
- Wake up 5 AM
- Love your family
- Spend more time alone
- Avoid negative thoughts
You are 100% your own responsibility!
I want to say something to you single ladies above 25 but below 30.
But I know that you'll not listen.
You see all these single men above 35? Many of them are not serious.
I've said this before, and I'm saying it again.
These men have buried themselves in their jobs, lost touch of what it means to be in a committed relationship, & cannot give you the attention that you desire.
Men below 35 are far better.
Even if they're still trying to find their feet.
Check again...
Most married men got married before they were 35.
When you meet a young man of 28 to 34, to you, they may be acting "immature", but this is common amongst their age grade.
And it's not even as if they're truly immature. The problem is that you young ladies have been exposed to much older men; either in real life, or through social media.
I'll use myself as a example.
I'm in my 40s, inching to 50.
When some of you read from me, you subconsciously think that the younger men that you're meeting, should be thinking like me.
You're wrong.
When I was in my late 20s and 30s, I was like most of the men that you're meeting today; if not worse.
You read from much older and experienced men from social media, and start to imagine that your late 20s and early 30s men should be like us.
An opportunity that people like my lovely wife didn't have, when she was in 20s.
She didn't have the type of social media or internet exposure that you have today.
Men who want to be committed to you, are not mostly men who are in their late 30s.
They either do not have the time, emotional intelligence or the patience to date you properly.
And alot of them that have achieved some level of financial stability or career success, would be looking down on you.
Because most of you young ladies are just starting life.
A man who truly wants to build a family, be there for his wife and family, and be the main provider, will start early.
He will start small, but not empty.
His years of experience in marriage with you, will teach him many things.
And as both of you keep growing and waxing in it, you'd be noticing changes in his character, ways of thinking, and emotional intelligence.
You may not like what I have said, but I see single men above 35 as potential red flags.
Of course, there would be exceptions.
But it's always better to be with men who are not too far ahead of you in life and exposure.
Give younger men a chance.
Ignore their obvious imperfections, and watch them grow into maturity, and into men that you would be proud of.
I have given you this advise with all sincerity of purpose, and like a father.
If you don't want to listen now, you'll understand much later.
I hope you won't regret it.
End.
You never really forget the look in a child’s eyes when they realize someone believes in them.
That look full of hope, curiosity, and courage is what keeps us going.
On Day 2 of our Back to School Outreach, we went beyond supplies, we shared stories and encouragement with students at Offa Grammar School, Community school Ajase Ipo, Oyun Baptist High, and Community Primary School Ijase Alaro, among other schools.
Empowering young minds starts with showing them that they matter today, tomorrow, and always. 1/2