A Nigerian culture that needs to die like yesterday is the one where Nigerians think they can just get away with anything just by apologizing. It doesn’t matter the magnitude of what they’ve done as long as they apologize.
One of the most terrifying things about life is how an entire lifetime of careful choices can be undone in seconds by someone else’s stupidity like some idiot streamer doing 200km/h for absolutely no reason.
Yes they are necessary to them. As long they're happy in marriage and about motherhood, it's more than enough reasons to celebrate.
"First birthday as a wife" congratulations to you 🥳
"First birthday as a mother" congratulations to you 🎉
Above all, love God.