“Can I bring my baby to the interview?”
The message came in at 11 PM:
“Hi, I have an interview with you tomorrow at 2 PM. My childcare fell through. Can I bring my 8-month-old? I understand if you need to reschedule.”
Old me would have rescheduled.
Unprofessional. Distraction. Red flag.
New me replied:
“Absolutely. See you tomorrow.”
She showed up with her baby on her hip.
She apologized three times before even sitting down.
Ten minutes in, the baby started crying.
She tried to soothe him while answering questions.
She apologized again.
I stopped the interview and said:
“Hey. You’re managing a fussy baby, answering complex questions, and staying calm under pressure. That’s literally the job. Handling chaos while staying professional. You’re already proving you can do it.”
Her eyes filled with tears.
We hired her.
She’s been with us for a year now.
The most reliable team member we have.
Why?
Because when you’re used to handling a screaming infant at 3 AM and still showing up to work the next day, workplace stress feels like nothing.
Working parents, especially mothers, are some of the most organized, efficient, and resilient people you’ll ever hire.
Yet we lose them because our hiring processes are built for people with zero caregiving responsibilities.
If your interview process can’t accommodate a parent facing a childcare issue, you’re not filtering for professionalism.
You’re filtering for privilege.
1. Thread on the most positive masculinity I've ever seen.
A few years ago I worked in Leicester and would stop to get a takeaway curry on Narborough Road on way home.
This was probably a Friday but can't be sure.
You know what gets the best response to reading for pleasure? There isn’t a trick or a resource. Or ideas you can magpie from a book. It is being a teacher that reads, promotes, recommends and is a magic mirror that reflects joy of books.
‘Oh god he’s a naughty boy.’
‘Do you know who her brother is?’
‘Good luck with that one.’
STOP.
And STOP again.
This is a child. Instead be blessed they will enrich your classroom.
“…the night became glamorous; it was, when poets found their inspiration, when parties became wild…” wow real lightbulb moment! Thank you @TheSchoolOfLife #serenity#calm#askwhy https://t.co/2n7fwMq8QQ
Following on from threads tonight, you can’t hide news from children. They hear it & we need to navigate & support. Our wonderful year 2 teacher @Charlie32798149 shared this with me earlier & is so poignant. Schools telling staff not to discuss news need to remember kids hear it.