A soulmate is not going to know how to automatically handle you. BUT….A soulmate is going to learn and grow with you through your flaws and insecurities. A soulmate will choose to stay when things get tough. They will look for solutions & communicate instead of running & quitting.
i enjoy feeling safe in my relationships. not safe in terms of this is “comfortable” safe but more like… wow i can rely on you to consistently show up for me emotionally, spiritually and physically, over span of time. preferably years.