Gentle reminder to myself and others that we can’t control what others think about us and it’s not worth losing your peace of mind over
I gotta stop trying to set the record straight and let them spiral in their made up fanatasies. That level of crazy is out of my pay grade 🤣
even if a feeling is really fucking petty and like immature i have to sit with it and process it, and most of the time i just need to be able to have that space to feel however i am feeling because ive never really had a safe place to do so
not that i should be clarifying details over the loss of my cat, but since people are being weird..
1) i’ve cat-proofed every balcony i’ve ever had, with bird spikes & plastic covers. this is the only building that didn’t allow me to.
2) my balcony door also has a bug screen, it turns out the cleaners opened the door to let a breeze in (not to clean the balcony bc i’ve never asked for that) and didn’t close the screen door, so a couple minutes later, my cat stepped out on the balcony and then fell.
3) as heartbroken as i am, i don’t want to blame anyone. this was a heartbreaking, freak accident. i’m very sad, and just clarifying things.
Look I’m far from being a fan of Poki, but some of y’all are evil for making fun of her. Losing a pet or loved one is tragic af, she’s in a world of pain you can tell. We need to be better