I feel extremely disconnected having conversations with people that don’t ask questions back. A lot of people only know how to talk about themselves and relate back to them, it’s exhausting talking to someone like that
the real “middle of june” is when you realize that a year ago, your life is totally different and there were people who are no longer part of it today.
Misery loves company. And so does self-sabotage. So do limitations. So does a closed mind. People subconsciously seek others who are also in their own way so that they can feel better about stunting their own growth.
so many people lack the simple friendship skill of being curious, asking questions from that curiosity, and actually listening to the answers - and yet this is like 90% of what's needed for someone to feel like you're a good friend to them
A question I like to ask myself when I’m upset is “is it my feelings or my ego that is hurt?” The answer makes how I plan to approach the situation a lot clearer for me.
learning to do the inner work and enjoy being alone will allow you to detach from people who leave so easily. you wouldn’t believe how much peace and fulfilment it will bring in your life