Men Version
If he chats privately with women and calls it “nothing serious”… Red flag
If he lowers his gaze on the street but not on social media… Red flag
If he wants polygyny but can’t even handle justice with one… Red flag
If he raises his voice at his wife but softens it for outsiders… Red flag
If he spends more on designer clothes than on his family’s needs… Red flag
If he posts Islamic reminders online but disrespects his parents at home… Red flag
If he neglects his Salah yet lectures others about deen… Red flag
If he goes to the gym more than he goes to the masjid… Red flag
If he hides financial matters from his wife… Red flag
If he uses “qiwamah” to control, not to protect… Red flag
If he flirts with sisters but gets angry when his wife receives greetings… Red flag
If he smokes, drinks, or indulges secretly and says “Allah is merciful”… Red flag
If he spends hours on games but no minutes on Qur’an… Red flag
If he follows hijabi influencers but complains about his wife’s modesty… Red flag
If he calls himself a leader but refuses responsibility… Red flag
Add Yours
– Eeman Spur
✒ Great Benefit | THE DESTROYED ONES
The Messenger of Allāh Ṣallallāhu-'Alaihi Wa Sallam said: “Do not ask about three (i.e they are destroyed ones);
• A man who breaks away from the Jamā'ah (main body of Muslims) and rebels against his ruler then dies as a rebel, then do not ask about him (i.e he is destroyed)
• And a slave-girl or slave who runs away from his master
• And a woman whose husband is absent and she has sufficient worldly provision but she DISPLAYS HER ADORNMENT TO STRANGERS and FREEMIXES after he left
And do not ask about three;
• A man who contends with Allāh regarding His Cloak for indeed His Cloak is Pride and His Honor is His Garment
• And a man who doubts the Command of Allāh
• And the one who despairs of Allāh's Mercy.”
● [الأدب المفرد ٥٩٠ ، صححه الألباني]
İbn Kayyim رحمه الله şöyle demiştir:
“Ömrüne bir sınır, günlerine ve nefeslerine bir son takdir eden Zât’a karşı gaflet içinde olmaktan sakın! Çünkü O’nun dışındaki herkese ihtiyaç duymadan yaşayabilirsin; fakat O’na asla ihtiyaç duymadan yaşayamazsın.”
el-Fevâid, s. 214.
ايات عظيمه جدًا
تخص كبائر الذنوب وليس صغائرها فقط
الله سبحانه وتعالى يغفرها جميعًا واللي اعجب من ذلك؟
يبدل هالسيئات وتصبح حسنات في حال توبتك، لاتقنط من رحمة الله ابدًا ❤️
İbnü’l-Kayyim رحمه الله şöyle der:
“Eğer tövbe, Allah katında en sevimli amellerden biri olmasaydı, Allah yarattıklarının en şereflilerini günahla imtihan etmezdi.”
Tarîku’l-Hicreteyn, 2/510.