Honestly nobody’s easy to date. Everyone has their insecurities, flaws, & certain ways of doing things that make us who we are. Perfect pple & relationships only exist on tv. The most important thing is finding someone who loves u on ur worst days & will fight thru the hard times
Manipulation is when they repeatedly trigger your mental health and nervous system, then focus on your reaction when you address their toxic behaviour, instead of their disrespect.
i immediately go silent when something upsets me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private. i prefer handling my problems on my own.
May you never again get attached to anybody who isn’t for you. May you find a love that makes you laugh, never lets the flirting phase end and gives you unquestionable loyalty. Someone who adores your childlike playfulness AND your old soul – a love you never have to heal from.
i think the hardest thing about adulting is that you literally have to keep going! no matter what mood or situation you’re going through. U gotta keep going cause life goes on.
THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:
* My feelings
* Having boundaries
* Saying NO to something I’m not really interested in doing
* Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it
* Taking a break
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