we are taught not to burn bridges cos we might need people later. but i pray i never have to depend on anyone who has hurt or humiliated me. may God bless me with abundance so i never have to be in that position
u often don’t realize it was emotional abuse until u leave, cause while u are in it, u are too busy surviving. The silence after they’re gone makes space for the truth: the gaslighting,the begging for empathy, the way u made urself small. That’s when the grief hits like a tsunami
A man told me this: “Men make time for what we want, we spoil who we want, and no matter how dumb we pretend to be, we are aware of what women need romantically. The truth is, each man will give as much or as little as he feels.”
I don’t care how sneaky you think you are, how long you got away with it, or how manipulative you are... the Universe will not let you play around and backstab solid people. Karma hits hard and those losses will be bigger than the shit you thought you got away with.
The biggest ick isn’t just someone who lies. It’s someone who lies to themselves. A flip flopper, fantasy addict, emotional con artist. A validation addict & emotionally unavailable love bomber who performs closeness but has no real anchor inside. Let me explain: