Whatever men are capable of, women are. Whatever you're capable of, other people are.
Whatever you're "capable" of whether you go do it or not, other people are too.
Your naiveness as to how human nature works stems from your lack of self awareness.
The male experience, at its core, is to be a disposable tool for a species that does not love him back. And the pain of that realization has no witness, no comfort, no resolution.
I want to be rich. But not Lamborghini
or Rolex rich, I want to be rich enough to go to the gym at 3pm and nobody can tell me no. To tap the family in front of me at the supermarket and say, "It's on me," Rich enough that my future wife never has to worry about getting a job. Rich enough to show my children the world, not pictures of it. Rich enough to take my friends to dinner and say, "| got this", Rich enough that God uses me to help the people who are in need. That's my version of rich.
As a Man, You don't always need words to understand your place in a woman's life. Sometimes, the answers are in the things she doesn't do. The conversations she refuses to have. The distance she refuses to acknowledge. The silence she's comfortable letting grow. And slowly, you begin to understand that if she truly wanted you in her life, she wouldn't let things fall apart so easily.😢🫥