10 Things I Hate About #BPD
👉🏻how emotionally vulnerable & receptive I am to other people’s emotions/mood/behaviour
👉🏻strange delusions & paranoia
👉🏻intrusive thoughts (probs linked to my #OCD )
👉🏻chronic & endless feelings of emptiness
👉🏻not knowing who I am
If you are neurodivergent, you deserve to be in a relationship that helps you grow and unfurl, but doesn't require you to hide parts of yourself you can't change. That energy is better spent finding people you actually gel with.
if you're having a shitty time with your mental health and are low functioning i feel u & sympathise. here's a list of potential actions for u to take to feel better/exist through it. try to pick a few & do them, but if you can't : that's valid too. let's go
trauma changes the chemistry of the brain. it can halt the brains development. it’s not like you can just “move on” from trauma. you can’t go back and change it. all we can do is cope as best we can. don’t judge others for struggling with things even years after they happen
FYI - people with BPD are more likely to hurt themselves than someone else. they’re also more likely to be the victim of abuse than the perpetrator. people with BPD cannot be generalised. the disorder presents in HUNDREDS of different ways. be mindful of what you say