kamaku

Legal Practitioner, Political Economist, Policy Analyst and Arsenal Lover

[kamaku @letsyan]

this is a no comment story, I am embarrassed http://t.co/jAQBtOhdVs

[kamaku @letsyan]

@HonestNarrativ I don’t believe he said it until something irrefutable is used to prove it.

[kamaku @letsyan]

@DEngliishalhaji I’m very, very sorry to hear this, very sorry, my brother. May he so rest in peace. I don’t know how he died, but I know nothing can console you but God. take heart, my brother.

[Chidi Anselm Odinkalu, CGoF @ChidiOdinkalu]

Today, I consider it important to address the real culprit or masquerade behind the transactional judicial jobbery of #PeterLifu in @FederalHigh.

That masquerade is John Terhemba Tsoho. He is the Chief Judge of the Federal High Court.

The role of Chief Judge comes with real powers. Among other things, he is responsible for postings & transfer of judges.

Then, there is case assignment.

In most other countries, cases are assigned by algorithm. In Nigeria, after a case is filed, the file goes to the Chief Judge (or to the senior-nost judge in the judicial division, often known as the Admin Judge) who then assigns the case to a judge to hear it.

This process is not just manual; it is personal.

This is often also the most important decision in many cases. It controls the outcome. In the Federal High Court of John Tsoho, this often pre-determines cases, especially when the cases have a political flavour.

Chief Judge John Tsoho has a closed list of acolytes whom he trusts to hear & decide political cases in the direction of the political wind or patron to be serviced. That is now clear & it is no use hiding it.

The political patron whose interest he serves is also easy to figure out.

Peter Lifu occupies a treasured place in that list of #PoliticalHitmen on the bench of @federalhigh. He can only do so because John Tsoho encourages him to. Here is a peek into Peter Lifu's recent record:

1. Declared the David Mark-led caretaker leadership of the ADC illegal.

2. Nullified the emergence of David Mark as National Chairman.

3. Invalidated Rauf Aregbesola's emergence as National Secretary.

4. Nullified decisions taken by the disputed leadership, including the presidential primary that produced Atiku Abubakar.

5. Invalidated the nominations of other ADC candidates for the 2027 elections.

6. Directed @inecnigeria not to recognise decisions taken at the party's July 27, 2025 NEC meeting.

7. Disregarded the specific order of the Court of Appeal to stay proceedings in relation to 1.

8. Sat as his own court of appeal on the decision of Liman J. also of the same Court in relation to 4-5.

These decisions ransack the discipline of judicial hierarchy & precedent. To reach them, Peter Lifu routinely & repeatedly disregards controlling precedent from @SupremeCourtNg. Most other judges who do that will be out of a job. Yet he prospers.

The problem with Peter Lifu & the slate of political surrogates masquerading as judges under the leadership of John Tsoho in @FederalHigh has moved beyond a critique of discrete decisions in specific cases.

It is about a pattern of manifestly compromised case assignments & docket management by the Chief Judge of the Federal High Court, John Tsoho, which provides ample evidence in support of the conclusion that there is a deliberate collusion in the court hierarchy to produce pre-determined decisions from the court of Lifu & his coven of politically corrupted judges.

Otherwise, how do cases involving @ADCNig keep going to him even after @NGCourtofAppeal on record called him a #JudicialRascal & found him guilty of "judicial impertinence" in relation to matters affecting the same party?

Whoever sees John Tsoho should pls ask him: does he not know of other judges in the Federal High Court? Can he disclose whose interest he is serving because one thing is now clear: he is no longer serving the interest of justice in the office of Chief Judge of @FederalHigh.... And he knows it.

[kamaku @letsyan]

@Pharmacio001 This is so daft. I know you know the story. Don’t tell me your brain is also locked up in prison. Yes, at least your brain is still free to be rational 🤔🤔🤔

[心灵书舫 | SoulSloop @SoulSloop99]

性学专家李银河说：“男人必须明白，你不嫖不赌，觉得自己是个好男人。可在女人眼里，这根本不算优点，你不抽烟不喝酒，你安分守己，她不会因此多爱你一分。只要你没本事，你赚不到钱，给不了她想要的生活，她照样嫌弃你。”

这段话直白犀利，戳中了当代婚恋关系最现实的痛点，让无数深陷自我感动的男人幡然醒悟。很多男人一生恪守本分，无不良嗜好，安分过日子，便理所当然认为自己是无可挑剔的好人，却始终不懂：安分守己、品行端正，只是为人处世的基本底线，而非值得被偏爱、被珍惜的专属优点。不犯错只是及格，能担当、能支撑生活，才是成年人维系感情的核心底气。

现实生活中，太多人混淆了“无过错”和“有价值”的区别。不嫖不赌、烟酒不沾，是一个成年人最基本的自律，是立身做人的最低标准，根本不足以成为婚姻里的加分项。就像一个人遵纪守法、不惹是非，只是守住了做人的本分，却不能以此证明自己足够优秀、足够担当。感情和婚姻从来不是容错福利，不会因为一个人毫无劣迹，就自动赋予幸福的结局。

简·奥斯汀曾说：“只考虑金钱的婚姻是荒谬的，不考虑金钱的婚姻是愚蠢的。”这句话精准平衡了婚恋中的现实与真情。我们不必过度功利，把婚姻完全等价于物质财富，但更不能自欺欺人，无视柴米油盐的现实重量。爱情可以风花雪月，婚姻终究要落地人间。生活的底气、家庭的安稳、未来的期许，都离不开踏实的能力与稳定的支撑。一个男人仅有安分的人品，却无立足谋生的本事，无法扛起家庭责任，终究难以维系长久的亲密关系。

很多男人深感委屈：我一生清白、踏实本分，为何得不到偏爱与珍惜？究其根本，是误解了婚姻的本质。婚姻是一场双向的奔赴与支撑，女人选择携手一生的伴侣，所求的从来不止“不坏”，更是“靠谱”。她们需要的不是一个毫无过错的摆设，而是一个能遮风挡雨、并肩前行的依靠。平淡日子里的安稳、困境之时的担当、生活未来的保障，这些看得见的价值，才是维系爱意、抵御岁月平淡的核心力量。

周国平曾说：“好的婚姻是人间，坏的婚姻是地狱。”平淡无波、毫无支撑力的婚姻，往往会慢慢消耗爱意。一个男人安于现状、不思进取，仅凭一身清白度日，看似安稳无害，实则是一种隐性的不负责任。生活从不会因为一个人安分守己，就减免风雨与磨难。当日子陷入拮据、生活遭遇困境、家人需要庇护时，空有品行、毫无本事，终究撑不起家庭的安稳，护不住身边的人。久而久之，失望积累成隔阂，温柔消耗成冷漠，所谓的嫌弃，不过是无数次失望后的必然结果。

但我们也要理性看待这句话，切莫陷入唯物质论的极端。李银河的观点是警示，而非定论。现实中，财富从来不是衡量一个男人价值的唯一标准，本事也绝不止赚钱谋生这一种定义。有人薪资平平，但上进自律、温柔体贴、顾家尽责、情绪稳定，能给家人满满的陪伴与偏爱；有人家境普通，但踏实努力、心怀善意、勇于担当，始终为生活奔赴前行。这种向上的姿态、温暖的人品、靠谱的担当，远比一时的财富更珍贵，也是婚姻里最稀缺的价值。

杨澜曾说：“婚姻最坚韧的纽带不是孩子，不是金钱，而是精神上的共同成长。”真正长久的婚姻，是物质基础与精神契合的双向成全。女人可以接受伴侣暂时平凡、收入普通，包容生活一时的清贫，却无法容忍男人安于平庸、躺平摆烂、毫无担当。暂时的贫穷不可怕，可怕的是不思进取的麻木、逃避责任的懦弱、得过且过的敷衍。

品行端正，是婚姻的入场券；能力担当，是婚姻的保鲜剂。不嫖不赌、安分守己，只能保证感情不会崩塌，却无法让爱意升温、让生活向好。真正的好男人，从不止于无过，更在于有为。他守得住人品底线，扛得起生活责任，懂上进、知担当、惜伴侣，既能守住婚姻的安稳，也能撑起家庭的未来。

成年人终要明白：善良本分是立身之本，谋生本领是立家之基。做人，要守住品行底线；成家，要练就担当本事。不必自我满足于“我不坏”，更要努力成为“我靠谱、我能扛、我值得托付”。

余生漫漫，愿每个男人都能走出自我感动的误区。以善良为底色，以进取为羽翼，以担当为底气，修人品、练本事、懂责任、惜真情。既守得住本心清白，也撑得起烟火人生，在平凡岁月里，给爱人安稳，给家庭希望，不负相遇，不负余生。

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[kamaku @letsyan]

@Arsenal_NewsHub Spot on

[Mr Piccolo @iamchrizten]

Damn... this story hits heavy.

She asked him to stop initiating, he actually listened for *sixteen months*, no pressure, no sneaking, nothing. And then one day he’s like “yeah I’m done living like roommates.”

The quiet part is what gets me. He wasn’t yelling or cheating or making threats. He just slowly checked out while still showing up for the kid and the laundry. That’s the scary part is when the fighting stops because one person already left in their head.

Sixteen months of “I’ll tell you when I’m ready” with no timeline is a long time to keep hoping the connection comes back. You can’t take one of the biggest parts of marriage off the table indefinitely and act surprised when the other person eventually walks.

Painful story. Real one though.

[kamaku @letsyan]

@sowore @PeterObi @NigBarAssoc @sowore It’s not a good brand to always seem to be virulent and aggressive. Explain your proposition without attacking his person

[kamaku @letsyan]

@sowore @PeterObi @NigBarAssoc @sowore please explain the lie. Are you saying if done it will be the 8th wonder of the world or you think it’s practically impossible or you think the man will steal the money. Explain the lie

[kamaku @letsyan]

Did you write your own will when you found out that you’re pregnant? You are the one in danger of dying. Do you think that giving birth is easy? It is the closest bridge between life and death. I think you should be the one writing your will. Unless you actually intend to kill your husband, because he is not in danger of dying, you are in danger of dying.

[kamaku @letsyan]

@DanisMCFC You know envy doesn’t hide even when you prefer nobody sees it. Sorry for your loss

[kamaku @letsyan]

@DrJoeAbah Fantastic man. Well done sir and congratulations on your birthday. All things being equal you will have a strength filled old age. You are a wise man. God bless you immensely.

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

“Ladies, date a man you can afford. The kind of man you dream of don’t dream of you, they can never dream of you!”

—Stella Abiodun. https://t.co/n28VaxFh6v

[kamaku @letsyan]

@Youngmonkibe @OurFavOnlineDoc 😂😂😂😂they have no guardrails anymore.

[kamaku @letsyan]

The level of foolishness you know that type of foolishness they call foolhardiness is multiplying at a very alarming rate among young women, these days? The strangest part of it is that their brain circuitry observes it as smartness or sharpness. And these are supposedly mothers to be😟😟😟😟

[kamaku @letsyan]

There maybe nothing wrong with her. Marriage is not for everybody. It is certainly not for beautiful people, rich people or ugly people or poor people. It is for people who still have space to be foolish sometimes by allowing others to use them. It’s a beautiful thing but being single can also be beautiful. Either can be a miserable thing but Life shouldn’t be poorer either ways. Accept where you are, and be happy.

[kamaku @letsyan]

@CFC_Jane Is it rocket science to see why your brain circuitry is wired to see things the way you do😃 we’re all in it together. Don’t worry you will be alright

[kamaku @letsyan]

@OurFavOnlineDoc God abeg!!!

[kamaku @letsyan]

@Iyoaiye_ @PeterObi You write this to see if people are actually stupid enough to believe you because you know how stupid You already sound.