wanting intimacy but refusing to participate in hookup culture because i'm only sexually attracted whenn i'm emotionally attached to someone is its own hell
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cuz im not auditioning for treatment i know i deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play w me.
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
this is not to discount the fact that most of her behaviour is due to what she's gone through in her life, but it does get to a point. sometimes she makes situations out to be so definitive when they literally aren't. they don't need to be. mumma you don't need to live like this.
Honestly relationship isn't supposed to be a prison, people are meant to have a life outside it so yes go on friendship dates and take pictures but don't come back to me.