instead of getting defensive when someone respectfully holds you accountable - try reframing it into a compliment towards you: not only does that person trust you with their emotions, they also think youโre capable of navigating conflict in a mature and balanced way.
I applaud all females who can functionally do their hair and make up everyday and look like a decent human. because I am not (have never been) that female ๐ซ ๐ฅฒ๐ซฃ๐