"men don't approach women anymore" is such a not-real thing. What you're noticing is that stranger sexual harassment tends to drop off once you're no longer a teenager/once you look old enough to fight back, cuss them out, etc
my hot take and they’re going to burn me at the stake: PART of the reason men don’t approach women anymore is because of unisex fashion. the jorts, baggy jeans, oversized everything. men are drawn to dimorphism, things that are undeniably “woman.” dresses, skirts, heels