Y’all lack communication skills because instead of taking what the other person is saying into consideration... You become defensive because you only listening to defend the points that make you look bad. That's the disconnect right there.
This dude on tiktok said, “Men are supposed to lead and you niggas are going tit for tat with her behavior. Are you not acting like a bitch? What would you call that?” Lmfaooo HE ATE!