i sent a man a photo of me and he replied with “😋”
i sent the same photo to another man and he proceeded to send me a voicenote detailing every. single. little. detail. that he loved about the photo, from my tattoos, to the painting behind me.
have fun, girls.
i want to be married to a man that doesn't need to be told how to take care of himself or the house or the kids. i want to be married to a man who looks around and wants to take care of things, for the sake of himself and me. wash the dishes because it's what you're supposed to do. clean the house because it's what you are supposed to do. cook because it's what you're supposed to do. i would only consider marrying a partner who understands that my job as a wife is not to be the person that nags them to do things. my role as wife would be do be a partner, and a helper. and that means that there's a split of responsibilities as a sign of love and respect