Note to self:
Plot twist: Your messy brain that connects random dots?
That's your 20% superpower. All your organized friends depend on you for divergent thinking and cross pollination.
Stop trying to fix the best parts of you.
The $0 marriage hack that beat therapy
Let me tell you how the Together Tracker saved my 20-year marriage (or 140 years if we’re counting in dog years—which we should when you work together like Pat and I do).
For context, meet Pat:
Your weird combination of skills isn't a liability. It's your 20% advantage.
Signed, Everyone who succeeded by NOT fitting in...
I wrote this one to myself. Need a daily reminder.
Richard Branson dropped out at 15 because he was dyslexic.
Now he runs a 400+ companies without ever having learned to read a spreadsheet!
Sometimes your greatest advantage is hidden in what others call a disadvantage. That's 80/20 thinking at its finest.
80/20 rule of meetings: 80% of decisions are made in 20% of the time .
The rest is just Karen from accounting talking about her cats"
(I may or may not be Karen)...
Overachievers anonymous: "Hi, I'm [insert your name] and I've been complicating simple things for 20 years."
First step: Admit 80% of what you're doing isn't moving the needle.
You can't fix a problem you won't admit to having.
@AlexAndBooks_@FoundersPodcast Do people really have trouble finding books to read?! My issue is more finding the time to read everything I’m desperate to get to!
HELP: Solutions and ideas for solving their problem
HEAR: A compassionate, listening ear
HUG: Soothing physical touch
Thanks to @SahilBloom for sharing this in his book "The 5 Types of Wealth"
Here's a fabulous framework you can use the next time someone you care about is complaining about something in their life:
The 3H framework
Ask explicitly which of the 3Hs they would like and in what order:
@thedankoe I find this perspective somewhat true but mostly uncompassionate. Let me ask you if you’d use this tone with an Auschwitz survivor or a mother who has just had a stillbirth or a pro athlete who has just had a career-ending injury.
Richard Branson dropped out at 15 because he was dyslexic.
Now he runs a 400+ companies without ever having learned to read a spreadsheet!
Sometimes your greatest advantage is hidden in what others call a disadvantage. That's 80/20 thinking at its finest.