sorry, y'all will never EVER convince me that being kind, loving, taking care of your man to get cheated on, left, etc is something to be ashamed of...
Being with a man who WANTS to be a father>>>>>>> having a supportive and equally excited and present partner during pregnancy is important for baby's imprint and for mom's perinatal/postpartum period. Pregnancy is too risky of a situation to be having babies with loser ass men.