I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
I found my peace when I finally learned how to tell people “ok” , instead of tryna get them to see my view 😂😂😂 I swear I do not be caring about a thing anymore😂. the sky is gold ok whatever you say😂😂
I wanna marry a family oriented man… like we don’t skip a holiday as a family, dress up with matching outfits on holidays, do outdoor fire bonds making smores during winter seasons, plan family cookouts, & etc.
at least you showed up authentically. at least you moved with honesty. at least you were direct with how you felt. at least you communicated openly and maturely. at least you tried. at least you never reciprocated their cruel behavior. your actions are a reflection of you.
i don't understand why people are so afraid of communicating like adults. don't like me? tell me. don't wanna talk to me? don't ignore me. you're mad at me? express yourself. i'm wrong? explain. we don't agree? share your viewpoints. it's not that hard lol