You cannot be mean or rude to me and expect me to see you the same, or for us to have the same interactions; you showed who you are and I am acting accordingly.
It’s crazy how most people use their 20s to build a career, but if you grew up in chaos, you basically spend those years just trying to survive the aftermath of your upbringing. It's like you're not even at the starting line yet bc you’re still repairing the track.