my whole mindset has changed. i don't even have the energy to do certain things & be around people anymore. i'm just at the point in my life where if something feels like it's draining me, or fighting with my peace of mind & happiness, i'm not dealing with it at all
It takes a lot of emotional maturity to look objectively at someone’s actions toward you, even after they hurt your feelings, so that you can understand why it happened because you love them & refuse to villainize them because you understand that people are seldom real villains.
so far in my 20s, the best lesson i ever learned was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will go on. You will be alright.