@Nubiaaaxs@yuki_kija@miromanticizzo this is cope. most black women don’t have naturally straight hair, so it wouldn’t make sense to be claiming ownership over a something that isn’t even common among u. non-black people can have textured hair too, but that doesn’t mean they get to claim it as their own either
@girlgriot@yuki_kija@miromanticizzo mind you, nowadays black women are more likely to get ridiculed for showing up with a buss down 613 blonde wig than wearing their natural hair. they keep using decades-old arguments to justify their self hatred lol
@yuki_kija@miromanticizzo like if a racist calls natural hair unprofessional, and instead of proving them wrong by embracing it, you turn around and cover it with hair textures they consider more acceptable? you’re just reinforcing the same prejudice you’re supposedly against
@yuki_kija@miromanticizzo -yet u wouldn’t tell them to stop wearing them because of that scrutiny, so why is discrimination suddenly a justification for using wigs to avoid wearing natural hair?
@miromanticizzo@yuki_kija they’re quick to label black people who bleach their skin or distance themselves from their cultural identity as self-hating, yet when that same criticism is applied to bw who exclusively wear wigs, suddenly we’re expected to be more empathetic and less harsh
you can’t simultaneously argue that white people’s opinions are irrelevant while using their standards of beauty and acceptability to justify distancing yourself from your natural hair.
they’re in the quotes & replies claiming they don’t care about yt people’s opinions,yet they often justify wearing wigs by pointing to how whites scrutinize and degrade natural hair. if their opinions don’t matter why let their prejudices dictate how u choose to wear ur own hair?
the black community drags doja cat more than they do kanye, chris brown, lil wayne, etc. there’s so many black celebrities who’ve done worse than her but she gets it the worse from the black community.
@yuki_kija@miromanticizzo and instead of challenging those ignorant remarks by embracing natural hair, bw continue to hide it and imitate other women’s hair textures. how do you expect acceptance when you perpetuate the very stigma you’re supposedly fighting against?