Hot take: I actually like when people bring up how they relate to my situation. I don’t assume they’re trying to steal the spotlight or one-up me. I see it as a person trying to help however they can by connecting & being vulnerable w me, as we should if we want community
You can’t love your country only when you win.
You can't obey the law only when it's convenient.
You can't be patriotic when you embrace or enable lies.